The flight from conversation
Sherry Turkle is a psychologist and professor at M.I.T., says we use technology to keep one another at distances we can control: not too close, not too far, just right: the Goldilocks effect.
“Over the past 15 years, Iâ€™ve studied technologies of mobile connection and talked to hundreds of people of all ages and circumstances about their plugged-in lives. Iâ€™ve learned that the little devices most of us carry around are so powerful that they change not only what we do, but also who we are.
Weâ€™ve become accustomed to a new way of being â€œalone together.â€ Technology-enabled, we are able to be with one another, and also elsewhere, connected to wherever we want to be. We want to customize our lives. We want to move in and out of where we are because the thing we value most is control over where we focus our attention. We have gotten used to the idea of being in a tribe of one, loyal to our own party.”